5 Reasons Why You Should Have a Pre-Wedding Shoot

You might have heard about pre-wedding shoots or engagement shoots from friends or wedding blogs and wondered: Should we do one? Is it needed?

While they’re not a requirement, a pre-wedding shoot can be a fantastic way to feel more comfortable in front of the camera, and there are many benefits for having one.

Let’s take a closer look at what a pre-wedding shoot involves and why you might want to include one in your wedding plans.

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What is a pre-wedding shoot?

A pre-wedding shoot, also known as an engagement shoot, is a relaxed photo session that takes place weeks or months before your wedding day. When it takes place is up to you, and your photographer’s availability. It’s often done at a location that’s meaningful to you, whether that’s a beautiful park, beach, or even the countryside in Wales. Unlike the more formal photos on your wedding day, these are casual, fun, and focus on capturing your relationship as it is, without the wedding outfits and all the extras.

The benefit? You’ll get beautiful, natural photos that celebrate this special time in your lives — before the wedding excitement kicks into full gear.

1. Get comfortable in front of the camera

For many couples, the idea of posing for photos can feel a little nerve-wracking, especially if you’re not used to being photographed. This is where a pre-wedding shoot can really help. It’s the perfect opportunity to get used to how your photographer works and feel more confident in front of the camera before the big day.

It’s like having a practice run. The benefit is you’ll know exactly what to expect on your wedding day. You’ll also learn some tips on posing and how to relax in front of the camera, making the wedding photos feel more natural.

• Tip: If you’re someone who feels awkward or camera-shy, a pre-wedding shoot is a great way to shake off the nerves. That’s why I include pre-wedding shoots in all of my packages – so your wedding photos shine! Choose a location that’s significant to you both or somewhere with a lovely scenic backdrop to bring out the best in your images. I’ve shot pre-wedding shoots at the wedding venue where my couples are getting married, and where they got engaged.

2. Build a relationship with your photographer

A pre-wedding shoot isn’t just about the photos — it’s about building trust and getting to know your photographer. You’ll spend a good portion of your wedding day with them, so it’s important to get along and feel at ease around them. This shoot gives you both a chance to get to know each other before the big day arrives.

Having a good rapport with your photographer makes the whole process more enjoyable, and it helps your photographer understand your personalities and preferences.

• Tip: Use this time to talk about any concerns or preferences you have when it comes to posing and style. It’s also the perfect chance to ask any lingering questions about your wedding day photography!

3. Personalised wedding stationery and décor

Another bonus of having a pre-wedding shoot is the chance to use the photos for your wedding invitations, save-the-dates, or even decor for your big day. Many couples use these images to add a personal touch to their wedding stationery or display them at the venue for guests to enjoy.

An added bonus – you’ll have a selection of professional photos that capture your love and excitement leading up to the wedding, which can be incorporated into your big day in creative ways.

• Tip: Consider using a favourite pre-wedding shot for a guest book or even a large framed photo at your reception.

4. Capture this special time in your life

Engagement and pre-wedding shoots are about more than just preparing for the wedding day. They allow you to capture a moment in time — the anticipation and joy of being engaged. While wedding photos will focus on the celebration and ceremony, pre-wedding photos are a reflection of your relationship in its everyday, joyful moments.

These photos will become cherished memories, showing you in a more relaxed, everyday setting before the whirlwind of the wedding day begins.

• Tip: Years down the line, you’ll be able to look back at these photos and remember the excitement leading up to your wedding.

5. Quality time together and destressing

Planning a wedding is full-on. You’re probably wondering what it was like to not have a wedding to plan and what you did with your time! It’s time consuming too, so spending an hour with your photographer while you have some much needed quality downtime together out of the house is the perfect remedy for planning stresses.

You could also make a date of it – grab some lunch or dinner afterwards, plan a movie night, anything that floats your boat to help you to relax and refresh your energy levels.

• Tip: Talk to your photographer about any ideas you might have to make the shoot feel even more like a date. You could suggest some poses you’d like, an activity – anything you can think of!

Is a pre-wedding shoot right for you?

While there are many benefits to a pre-wedding shoot, it’s important to know that it’s not essential. Some couples feel confident skipping this step, especially if they’re comfortable with being photographed or prefer to focus entirely on the wedding day itself.

However, for those who are feeling nervous or want to ensure they’re fully prepared, a pre-wedding shoot is a brilliant way to ease any anxieties and get to know your photographer’s style. A pre-wedding shoot helps you feel prepared and more at ease, and it’s a great way to enjoy some quality time together before the wedding day.

If you’re unsure, speak to your photographer. They can advise you based on your comfort level and whether they think a pre-wedding shoot will be beneficial for you.

Final thoughts

In summary, while you don’t need a pre-wedding shoot, it can be a valuable experience. It allows you to practice being in front of the camera, get to know your photographer, and capture a special time in your life leading up to the big day. If you’re feeling unsure about posing or simply want some beautiful engagement photos, a pre-wedding shoot could be just what you need to feel confident and excited for your wedding photos.